There are lots of possibilities to ask for help. You only get
help when you ask for it with a sincere heart. For "ask and it
shall be given". There are also lots of reasons why you don?t
get the help you wanted. I will mention some reasons:
- you didn?t ask,
- you didn?t listen to the answer,
- you didn?t like the answer,
- you blocked the help with your expectations,
- you asked help in favor of something and the next moment you
ask something opposite to the first question.
- You aren?t good in asking the right questions,
- you don?t believe in help,
- you don?t believe you are worth it,
- you have a blocked heart.
There are more, but these will do for they sufficiently paint
the picture. Here we go.
When do you ask for help?
Every time when you do something, it is good to ask help from
your Self, your divine essence, so what you do is inspired by
the God inside you. This will fulfill your desire for connection
with All there Is and give you sense of completeness with whatever
you do.
Why do you ask for help?
Because doing things together in multi awareness is much more
fulfilling and rewarding than not asking. The outcome doesn?t
matter, the way you do it. And asking help is one way of showing
yourself that you are connected with all there is, that you are
more then a 3d being. Asking help smoothens also your daily life,
keeps your awareness and sensitivity going. A task completed with
help gives, during the process, a feeling of being alive, a feeling
of satisfaction and joy.
How do you ask for help?
By knowing who to contact for which help, to feel at home with
asking help. By expecting (yes this is a way of creating help,
and allowed) that your call will be answered, or is already answered.
By respecting yourself and knowing you are worth to get help.
And by asking the right questions.
What are the right questions?
It is as easy as it is: please (name of entity) help me with this
task. Or as an example: I like to create a job, (name of entity)
please help me to find the job. I would like to have a job which
sustains my personal growth ??? and then you are getting into
details. Add: for the good of all concerned. Make sure that you
don?t ask for things that are outrageous. Enough is enough and
good is good. So a question with your ego in it, won?t work. With
trial and error you will know what to ask for, how, when and who
to address.
Who do you ask for help?
This one is the good one. Have you acquainted yourself with the
Angels, the Deities, the Elfs, the nature Spirits, the Spirit
of the stones, your house, your house Spirit? Some people only
work with angels. Some know their house angel, their house spirit
and have built a loving relationship with them. Others have a
relationship with totem animals, ancestors spirits, spirit of
the winds.
Other ones have a special healing team to assist them on healing
work for others, and some just have a team for healing themselves.
The first thing you always have to consider: it is you who has
to do it. Asking for help and not putting energy into the task,
is just in vain. So ask for help, get into action, do your thing
so the others are able to reach you and help you the way it is
intended to help you. Help may also come differently from the
way you have visualized.
In the breaking the contract meditation I had the following passage
on getting to know your help.
Before you do this, do you know your guardians, higher self and
the divine essence of you? Time to get acquainted don?t you think?
So say hello to every guardian angel, to every spark of higher
self and to your divine essence. Feel their reaction to you. Make
sure you feel the difference in energy sign, energy blueprint,
so you can recognize their being the next time when you think
about them. This takes some time to do, but it is very worthwhile.
Take your time, listen to their voice, see the energy print of
them, feel the essence of their being. Mix it with yours, separate
it and feel your own energy pattern again. Listen if they have
an urgent message for you, a wish, a hope, a present, doesn?t
matter what. They will come with it when you show an opening and
a willingness to learn, understand and be yourself more. You also
can ask them to give you a sign, a way to recognize them the next
time you meet them. If they have names, ask if you are allowed
to know their names. Accept for the time being that it isn?t the
right time now, but it may change in the nearby future.
Instant fast way of getting help
Take a comfortable way of being. Go to your heart, not the deep
way, just normal easy going. Take a deep breath and ask for help
needed. Explain what you like to achieve with the task in front
of you. Expect that your wish will be heard. Start doing your
task and keep your eyes, ears and senses open for the help, the
answer you will be receiving.
A full meditation on getting help
Go to your heart, the deep meditation entrance with counting.
Go to your inner garden. See if you can find the way to the hospital
or university or gathering place, what ever feels right for you.
Depending on your choice you can go with one of the following
options:
The Hospital
When you feel like you need to have a check-up or a healing would
be a good idea, or just your intuition chose for this option,
the hospital is a good idea. It is also an idea to go there when
you like to offer healing or learn healing.
You did find your way to the hospital. You see the building standing
in your garden, but when you push the door open, you come to a
beautiful corridor with many more doors. You step inside. In this
corridor you see a fountain with water made of light, depending
on the persons who like to take a sip the colors may differ. The
birds fly free around you. The sound of the singing and the sound
of tickling water gives you a sense of rest and peace. You have
two options now, either you ask for guidance or you let your intuition
take you to another door, another corridor or let yourself be
guided through the building to where you want to be. In some emergency
cases the healing staff is waiting for you. Then they will take
you along to where you need to be. Ask for inner guiding, and
let the scenery unfold before you. What will happen is up to the
route you choose, the asking of your inner knowing for healing,
and the wisdom of the healing team. To mention some options: you
can be taken to a hall for sound healing or color healing or vibration
healing, or something like Reiki, or a consultation on health
physical, mental, emotional, the energetical, chakra, aura or
soul level. It is also possible that you are wrapped with a soft
energetic skin in different colors and you are laid on a bed made
of colors, flowers. It is also possible to be in a womb environment
for remembering and feeling oneness and secureness. It is also
possible that some other people will sing healing songs and sounds
to you, while giving you a message on an energetic level. The
beautiful transparent Violet Flame can be used too. A surgery
on your energetic level to remove parasites, or restoring some
of the functional channels of communication.
When you come to this hospital for helping, you can assist in
all these actions, whatever your expertise is, and what you come
along to learn.
If the hospital looks familiar, this is very logical. Lots of
the healing during your sleep time is in this place. You have
been here before. Now it is time to be here consciously.
The university
Some will be drawn to the university. This is the place where
you learn things you can adjust into your daily life or to what
you are able to learn on a soul level. Here the different techniques
are explained. The history of the galaxy, the history of your
soul development, the importance of love in every moment in ones
life, in discoveries and so on is explained. It is a place of
wisdom, a place of exchanging experiences of how you put this
wisdom into practice, and a place of contemplation. Much of the
learning a soul gets during the sleeping period in life is in
this university. You can come here during your sleep time or in
a meditation. Let your soul, higher self, your intuition, guide
you. You also can ask for assistance if you want some suggestions
where to go, what to learn, what to read. In matter of fact, you
have a personal counselor who knows you already. Ask the personal
counselor to visit you, and start talking to each other. It is
advised to listen most of the time. Your counselor knows what
your challenges will be, knows what you already have learned,
and has very good advise on what to learn next. This visit in
meditation is consciously, you know what happens. In your sleep
you know also, but most of the time you forgot when you are awake.
It is very good to do something that fits into you schooling program.
If you have a question for something you like to learn, to know
or to solve, it is a good idea to exchange ideas with your counselor
about it. Let him/her (did you ask for his/her name and your relationship
with him/her?) advise you where you could get an answer or some
advise for the next step. Your counselor can give you a ticket
for a classroom with some other students and a teacher or a personal
meeting with a professor.
Just trust yourself and see what happens. I can give you only
possibilities, what happens is up to you, up to what is needed
and there are lots of free will choices involved. I won?t restrict
you with a complete image when it is only possible to talk about
choices and possibilities. Consider to visit the university to
give a lecture on living in 3d. You bring with you a lot of experiences
that others might be interested in. This will depend on who is
at the university at the time your are visiting.
The gathering place
This place is a fine thing to visit and ask for help or offering
help. The gathering place will vary in exact location. It might
be in a forest, on a square, in a temple, near a waterfall, in
the town hall, in a library. Just let your inner knowing, intuition,
or your higher self, be your guide.
When you are in this place, go and sit in the circle of attendants.
Listen to what the others are telling. See how every one gets
invited to be in the middle and share his ideas, wishes, asking
for help, offering help and so on. See, you are getting invited
also. When you are in the middle, see who is standing with you.
It might be one of your guides, your higher self, your parents,
one of your spiritual family, one of your soul mates, one of
the soul family. This will depend on your question and asking
and who is involved for the highest good of all concerned. So
if your question is influencing others in their soul development
and some contracts are involved, they will be in the circle assisting
your plea. Do what you plan to do, where you came for. And see
what happens. An old wise being will be listening, guiding the
process, it might be your God self who directs the interaction
and the questions they will ask you for more information. Don?t
be surprised when you step outside the circle with no answer.
Answers have the habit to come in their own time, when all is
ready for getting answered. Also offered help will come in its
own time. Just practice patience, practice listening to the different
ways and manners the answer and help may come your way.
When you feel you are finished, when you are ready to leave, thank
all who you have met, who have assisted you in what you came to
do. Give gratitude to all. Bow for the wisdom, love you have received
during your visit.
Leave the place that you have visited with the knowingness in
your heart that you will be answered, that you are heard and a
heard question, a question others have listened to, will be answered.
Maybe the answer will not be of your liking as ego, but your soul
will grant the wisdom and the blessing and understand it. Eventually
you will understand all that happened, if there are some questions
left.
Go to the waterfall of light and take a shower in it. Let yourself
be refreshed with courage, new energy of love and willingness
to participate in a world who needs you to be fulfilled to its
highest potential. Take along with you the love you have felt
in this place, within these meetings and the knowingness that
you are loved and guided beyond measurement.
As you go along back to the altar of your garden, place a flower
on the altar. Know that you are guided and helped. Maybe you have
seen your guides in this meditation, maybe you can ask for it
the next time you visit. Maybe you have seen your special healers,
your special teachers, your special counselor, and maybe you remember
them for what they are. Life will be blessed when you are able
to maintain the relationship with them during your normal daily
life.
Now you have the choice of playing in the garden, playing with
your inner child, take a nap under a whispering tree or go back
the same way as you came.
As always I will end this meditation as I normally do. Take some
time to pamper yourself, take time for getting adjusted to being
back in your body. Drink lots of water to refresh the water in
your body. And if you don?t have a clue, just read the end of
the other meditations for more advise.
With Love,
Ashtar.