This is Ashtar speaking.
If we consider the list with do-not's and the mistakes someone
easily makes in a relationship, I will give you as few other have
done, do-not's especially for love relationships, and these are
also valuable for friendship relationships, and other relationships
as well.
- Don't expect something from any being;
- don't accuse some being;
- don't complain.
And consider: the good habits, the good things some being is,
the strong points in a personality, will become, in time, the
weak points in this person. Every good thing has it weakness.
Because most of the people strive to get the weakness better,
and forget to look at the good parts in them, everything can be
improved, and most of the people forget to improve their strong
good points.
This is the ego trap, and you will prevent this with being humble.
I already talked about the mistake of being humble and having
a lack of confidence in life. These aren't the same. This is also
a nice ego trap some will fall into it. This is part of the game,
and keeps your alertness going on. Otherwise your awareness will
fall in sleep again.
Next to being humble is the trust in life a natural thing that
will come in your being if you practice the grace of living. If
you live the grace of living, you will see that some nice coincidences
will follow you where ever you go. This is a natural state of
being if you go with the flow of life. This is a measure point
to see if you really are in the flow of live.
If you happen to see the flow of live, the course it will take,
you will find trust an easy grace of living. With this trust in
yourself as Being God, you make a lot of things possible with
creation. This is part of the mastery of life, mastery of being.
Again being of trust can be a self centered experience, which
can be highly overestimated. The ego trap will join you quickly.
So being Humble is the only way out of this trap, and to avoid
this trap. A good thing to do is to look at the lists of do-not's,
(just eat a donut and remember yourself at the lists of do-not's).
If you really look at yourself, you see a lot of things you still
do. So being humble won't be that difficult to be.
When you are me or an Ascended Master, you still are humble, knowing
what you still need to learn to be more of God then you already
are. Being humble is also a power to keep you going, as I stated
in the message of yesterday. And don't forget to be of joy, to
enjoy the ride. I say this because you won't laugh at stepping
into an ego trap, but it is funny to do so. It gives you a valuable
lesson in life, gives you opportunity to be awake again and avoid
falling to deep in sleep. When you fall too deep in sleep you
will have more trouble being and becoming awake. It is as matter
of fact a grace to fall in these traps instead to fall into descending.
This trap can be an outing of your descending, but with trust
into your higher self, your minds eyes open, you will get plenty
of opportunities and reminders to stay on track or to get back
on track.
Your God self, your higher self, can be trusted. They are to be
trusted when you wander of your track, if you take the road less
traveled (the good easy road towards becoming God) or the normally
heavy road of difficulties. In time you will learn to trust them.
As it normally goes, when everything goes right, you trust them,
if you wander and get lost, you don't trust them anymore. And
then they are very handy in providing you the right course, giving
you clues, postponing the happy coincidences to remind you that
you are not going with the flow, and are encouraging you to go
with the next step on the right road, to shower you with coincidences
with the first step you take. Then they will say, okay, we have
shown you that you are on the right track, it takes a little effort,
but you can trust us right now, we have proven it. So we see what
you have learned of it. And then the happy coincidences will be
less, and you will easily get into the state of paralyzed fear
of not getting guidance anymore. The trust they ask of you, you
need to show at this very moment. If you don't trust your God
inside you, what will you trust in life? Nothing, and this will
cause you a lot of problems.
The God in you, your higher self, will come to rescue you once
again of a wrong track if you will listen. And they persuade you
to go on, while showering blessings (happy coincidences) upon
you. And the situation will be where it was before you left the
right track towards becoming more God.
And then trust will set in or you wander again.
Your God inside you can be trusted, your ego not. So what is the
big deal, the big problem if you have already the confirmation
that you are on the right track, doing the right stuff? To ask
more is an act of lack of confidence, a lack of self-esteem. You
will need to do some work on it. To strive with trust towards
your goal. And when needed, the happy coincidences will follow
you. You need to put just a little effort in it, to show you are
of good will.
Having a lack of confidence, a lack of self-esteem is a sign of
lacking the trust in your Higher self, of lacking the trust in
the God inside you. If you start to listen to the God inside you,
at every time, then your guidance will be close at hand. In your
heart you will find it. And then the outside coincidences will
be of less worth for you for your confirmation, guidance is inside
your.
It is a good idea to practice the art of trust, the art of listening
to yourself, your God self. And you only need to be trained in
listening.
If you start listening, then you will find lot of things inside
you where you can listen to:
- ego matters;
- emotions;
- habits;
- beliefs;
- body longings;
- instincts;
- feelings;
- programming;
- concepts;
- thinking.
And all these things aren't the God inside you. So how will you
find the God inside you when you get a lot of noise to get confused
about?
There is a layer underneath this all. This layer talks softly
about the good for all, the love for existence, doesn't manipulate,
gives respect to all concerned when presenting a solution for
a problem. It is a inner feeling of peace, of happiness, of being
at one, at ease. And this feeling can be questioned, and it will
stay the same, it can be tested, and it stays the same. This feeling
won't change, because it is everlasting. The solution can be changing
considering the situation. The answer can be changed because you
have changed, and your question doesn't have to be changed, but
you can have a possibility for a deeper answer, another step closer
to God inside you. The answers will be appropriate for the moment.
And this moment, as we have stated before, changes form moment
into moment. So never the answer form within will be the same.
Don't expect this, otherwise you listen to a static CD with a
repeat button switched on and this is definitely not the God inside
you.
Some will say that the answers will stay the same, they never
change. It will depend on your adoption of the truth. The graces
of living concepts are in the beginning just concepts. But when
you start living them they become a living truth. And truth is
also depending on the situation and your inner state of being.
After a while you live them and you are done with the concepts.
But meanwhile you could think about teaching them to yourself,
your children and by example to every being who is willing to
see you as you are now at that very moment of looking at you.
Better decide what kind of view you are giving them.
I know that lot of people say that the all loving God won't give
you remarks like "you have to do", or "when you don't do this".
This will give a lot of people distrust in the messages when I
use these very words.
It is a matter of a guideline. If you accept the guideline, then
you go with the flow of it. Then the "you have to"'s are just
a matter of speaking to make sure that you go with the flow of
the guideline. If you step aside to this line, as you are free
to do so, you will feel the why of these "have to"'s. You will
see the wisdom in it. Or you just step off the guideline and figure
it out by yourself (as this guideline persuades you to do for
yourself). You can figure it out if this is a right guideline
for you. You can figure out if there is another one that resonates
more with you then this one. You are also free to decide that
you won't follow any guidance. That's alright for me. I don't
feel any satisfaction with people who follow the guidelines presented
in these messages. It is just a possibility to give you a guidance
to get the easiest way of going with the flow, to get to know
yourself better, in becoming more the God who you are. You are
completely and uttermost responsible for your own discernment
and steps and growth in your life. Your choose to test the messages
in daily life if they work for you.
You are free to be whatever you want to be. This is the first
law of creation. But if you are, by change, longing to feel the
God inside you, to express it in daily life, to become more that
GOD and to go home, may-be it is worthwhile to read these messages
and ponder them in your life and put them into a test, a fair
one.
It all matters if you trust yourself, trust your discernment in
feeling the truth. And this discernment will grow into fine-tuning
when your sensibility has been valued and has been restored (healthy)
from hurtings and hardening form outside worldly sources. And
then you will have seen the value of one lesson I have given you
before, the value of being sensible and respecting yourself as
being sensible.
And last but not least. I am just God for myself, just as you
are God for yourself. The guidelines I offer should never and
never stay inside you when the God inside you doesn't resonate
with it. This is never a guideline to replace the God inside you.
It is just as it is, A GUIDELINE TO FIND THE GOD INSIDE YOU, and
my humble way of presenting my values to you to think and ponder
about and to see if they work for you.
And in matter of fact, lots of societies are busy pondering them,
to refine them, to practice them, to examine them, to think about
them, to write extensions on it fitting to their view, and to
reconstruct them, but most of all to feel the love of them for
existence, the love for them, the love for their growth, the love
for them being GOD.
I love you being GOD. And I trust you, being God, to do what is
good for you as being GOD and as part of the GOD-being you all
are.
Have a good time in being God, and I hope the message about trust
and humbleness (with my example in it) will give you something
to ponder about. Getting awareness is all that matters in your
society and the changes you like to see will follow if you do
your best to get a vision which can be put into creation.
Have lots of fun while doing everything you like doing.
Ashtar
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