This is Ashtar speaking.
Let?s talk about Parents.
I have talked about the role of the elder people in your society.
I have talked about the problem the elder people are facing right
now. Just to remind you: having a body with malfunctions (such
as diseases) and still having the wish for adventure, experience,
love and so on. They hadn't time in their youth for adventure,
and if you have missed these changes you will ever feel the itch
of adventure, just outside your reach.
These people with resentment about missed changes, wrong doing
and wrong understanding between their relationships, with a society
with lots of choking rules from church and government, try to
get their youth back and do the things they liked to do in their
youth. It is no use to tell them that they are at the phase of
wisdom, gratitude, learning of past experiences. They just don?t
have the peace of mind, the quietness gained from lifetime experiences,
the gratitude towards life, the love for the youth. They just
want to be in their youth again.
In your society the young people have to run the companies. When
you are young, you have a lot of energy, you don?t have obligations
at home (animals, wife, husband, children, sick parents), you
don?t have the trouble of a misused body (you are just at the
age of misusing your body, so you aren?t bothered by it at this
moment). You are supposed to have the maturity to make wise decisions,
act like an adult, and make as much career as possible, or start
as soon as possible an own family-life. If you look at these wishes
pushed on your shoulders, you would be blind, if you don?t see
that you are supposed not to act like a young adult, in for adventure.
You are very well pleased with these possibilities, the call for
duty, these responsibilities, just forget that it is a once in
a life time opportunity to have adventure, until you are satisfied,
bored with it. You just start working and forgetting to listen
to your heart. The wish to be treated as a real full responsible
person, worthwhile part of the society, makes you act above your
age, forgetting your wish to be free.
So the new cycle of young people, who don?t have the possibility
for adventure, will grow old, sick, immature, impatient, restless,
bored with obligations, longing for adventure, with envy for the
young people who have these opportunities.
And somewhere in the middle, you see your parents in the same
trouble. You see yourself running after life obligations, trying
to secure your lifestyle, trying to get a job or hold the job
for money, a home, a family life with the longing for adventurous
freedom, experiences, and a life lived to its fullest.
With one hand you try to keep your boss happy, you like to live
in peace with your parents, you run for errands to the shop, the
school and the cradle and paying bills, trying to save for the
education you like to have for your children. And as you live
the life of expectations for your parents, you ask the same from
your children.
Don?t you like to break free? But, but, but, you would say, my
job, my mortgage, my relation, my children? I would say: your
dreams, your longings, your hearts desire or sickness, dissatisfaction,
complaints, secondary life with TV shows, soaps, big games on
TV, cheating on your spouse. Get a life for GOD sake! For the
GOD inside yourself sake.
Every being is complaining missing something, and the society
with its rules makes sure it stays this way. Some one needs to
free them selves from this cycle. Just to learn to be of gratitude
for the life you have had and the lessons you have learned. You
knew what kind of society you chose to live in before you signed
to be born in this timeframe. A wasted life is a wasted life,
just make the best of it.
To be of grudge, will prevent you from gaining wisdom, prevent
you from being of use for your Soul, and prevent the rest you
can do with joy, gratitude and fulfillment.
To stalk the younger people with your missed chances doesn?t help
them, or you. Learning wisdom, be grateful for the youngest ones
in your neighborhood and the chances they give you, is far more
worthwhile. Just read yesterday?s message with the topic children
and wisdom.
It is rather difficult to ask people to be of wisdom, talk with
wisdom, act with wisdom, when they didn?t have the possibility
to learn it with lives experiences. It is rather difficult to
ask young people to treat their parents with respect when they
are in a competitive position with each other. The one wants to
have their wished life lived by their children and the other just
wants to be free to live his own life and get his own experiences.
Mom, don?t you see, I AM DIFFERENT. And sure she is. DAD I AM
NOT LIKE YOU, BASEBALL IS COOL. How will you get respect as parents
when you don?t see your children as a person free to be himself?
And how do you get respect from your children when they see you
are jealous, full of judgement, full of grudge and envy for their
youth, choices, flirtations and sex attention?
And if they don?t do it different then you (they tell you they
will, but you will see that it really doesn?t matter that much)
they will become just like you.
The only way out of this struggle is to gain wisdom, to practice
it, to scratch it from every available experience, to use every
split second of your life to get the lesson, the wisdom out of
it. The next thing you will need is to practice gratitude to every
being, especially to your parents and other older people.
And if you really happen to find the exception to this image of
people in circles, just cherish the example and learn from it
as much as possible.
Most likely, you would say this isn?t the way it was in your youth
and with your parents now in times moment and then in history.
I sure hope so. There will be nice exceptions considering the
devastating way of family life I have written you an imagine.
If you are one of these exceptions, this makes only your responsibility
bigger to display the wisdom. Pity isn?t it?
Just use your time wisely. If you have read the life time message
about time to live and time to gain wisdom, you will remember
that because of the short span of life you have, you face the
difficulty to have to do everything at the same time, where other
societies have more time to get everything accomplished.
It is very normal to have this kind of problems with gaining wisdom,
adventure, experiences now in your world. It is very normal to
have these problems with each other of different generations.
It won?t be wise just to leave it that way. Be the first one to
step out of it, out of the circle. Be the wisest God you want
to be, you dreamt to be when you were young. Give yourself this
present to the young one inside, wishing for adventures. Give
yourself this present to the young ones outside you and enjoy
multiple respect for each other.
This is rather a short one considering other messages, but that
won?t be for long, because
Imhat inpat anaou ishtar solemoeny pateh manoua (yes, 7 this time)
(editor: yes, I did finish the other ones today, so now I?m busy,
again. ;-)
Goodbye
Ashtar.
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