Channel: dear Ashtar: is this the way of a woman?s life, to find
her beloved, love him dearly, give life to him, represent the
Goddess until he leaves you in search for wisdom, insights? This
is what the story of Mary Magdalena is all about. I feel sad to
think it is a women?s way to love and to lose, and yet love remains
on both sides.
Man and woman have a different outcome in life. Men look for wisdom,
insights. Women choose for love, for deeper understanding being
love. This is the way it is. It is their nature. It is your nature
as man, as woman.
When man leaves you for more wisdom, insight and deeper understanding,
in time he returns to the Well of ALL, inside the female nature.
This may be you or another woman. The love for a man transcends
every woman. It is ISIS in love. And Osiris searching for her.
As loves goes on, you are able to be love, to transfer love to
a deeper level. This is the path of the woman, to be the embodiment
of love on all levels. Even when your man doesn?t leave you in
body, he will be on his quest. You are the keeper of love, you
are the keeper of your love for both of you. You can put him through
the wringer for being absent, you can also transfer your love
to yourself, to others, to the world.
Women are the lovers of the world, the caretakers of the world.
Your love sustains the worlds of man, the worlds of creation.
Every woman comes to a point where you transcend into the Goddess.
When you strive to be the embodiment of the Goddess, you are the
very well where all come to drink. This is your maturity as woman,
this is your path as woman. Transcend through the pain and see
the value of all there is.
It might feel that your love isn?t valued, isn?t answered. The
answer to this is, you don?t need his love to be of love. With
him or without him you are love.
If you live with a man in sacred relationship, you are very lucky
when he sees you as you are, and values you as you are. Your salvation
isn?t him, and this is true both ways. Don?t strive to be a man,
as a woman. Enjoy each other, be with each other, let the other
be who he is and who she is.
Don?t feel pain for what isn?t meant to be. In a sacred relationship
you are loved the way you are. All love can be deepened in time
when you both strive for it. Don?t look at the way the illusions
teach you how love should be. You aren?t made for that, and this
is the way it is. It only makes you both unhappy.
If you look at the value man has been taught about love, about
women, just start to change the world inside you. This is the
only right answer. Respect yourself, respect your capacity to
love all. Enjoy when you are in a sacred relationship. Enjoy when
you aren?t in a sacred relationship for you can have it inside
you. The male and female inside every being can be united in a
sacred relationship. Find this inside you and teach this to your
children. Female and male are equally valued in being together
ALL creation.
Feel your sadness, get rid of the false expectations, love yourself
and all dearly, respect yourself, treat yourself worthy, make
sure that you fulfill your needs as women before you open the
well for all.
If you don?t have something to sustain your being, you don?t have
something to give to yourself, to the world (is a part of yourself).
Get yourself connected with the woman inside you. Get yourself
connected with ISIS or other female Goddesses you feel acquainted
with. Then get yourself connected with other women, don?t strive
for the love of man. Be companions with other women and not opponents.
If you look at the nature of the creation in your part of the
creation, male leaves female source to become creation, only to
come back in reunion, and being reunited, he will leave again.
This is the way of nature. In the counterpart of your creation
it is the other way around.
If you look at the nature of males and females, you will see that
with his leaving in mind, in body on his quest, he stays with
his love and comes back to it. This is the way of creation and
this is the way of relationships.
The source is everything the male creation strives for. The creation
wants to be reunited, longs for it, searches for it, and eventually
comes back to it.
The female source is the frequency of the universe. Females are
the embodiment of this wave of energy. They are, and that is all.
They go with the flow of life. They are representatives of the
source, of the flow of energy.
When we look at every male and female in the creation, we see
this attraction between source and creation between the sexes.
We also see it inside every being. Every being is a representative
of both. To outgoing impulse will have a longing to stay at the
inside. If inside you all stay, than nothing happens, the movement
of creation wouldn?t be seen. To know thyself needs the outward
impulse to experience, and the inside impulse to gain wisdom.
If again I look at the pain of leaving and the pain to be left
alone, I see two sides of the same. Two sides of the same love
which lives forever. The pain to be left alone is also the pain
of the females being less valued in life then the male part of
going out. So the emphasis lies on the going out principle. This
causes that much of the going out principle was more then needed.
There is a time for both. While a man has a female inside who
values staying with the flow, the women have a man inside that
likes to have the outgoing impulse of adventure and experience
too. Both are able to meet halfway. This way the pain can be healed
for both sides. For both sides are able to understand, feel the
other pulse and the need for balance and respect.
Unlucky for all women in your part of creation, what you feel
is underestimated and not valued. The pain of being left alone
isn?t valued, and the urge to go outside and do your thing as
women isn?t valued. To stay isn?t valued, and to go isn?t valued
either. What hurts more as a woman or female inside the man is
that the love you can bring to the world, the values to live and
love you are representing, aren?t valued. So the problem isn?t
only the pain of leaving, but also the pain of being less then
respected. And if you search for this respect in the male outgoing
principle, the hurt deepens.
If you cling to the male energy for your value as female energy,
you will cause an eruption of aggression, for he has to go without
a look at the past. And you are past, history. The urge is that
strong. That?s the way of creation in every being, in the whole
galaxy, in all creation.
The source is all, everything what is needed. So the female energy
doesn?t have to been valued by the male energy to feel fulfilled
with being what she is. She is all, she encompasses all, she gives
life, she is life.
The male energy will go out and find that it isn?t giving him
what he needs in life. So he loses his impulse, his direction,
his movement and starts to go back to the source. The male energy
needs to have the source to push off against and to go back to.
The male energy, as opposite to the female energy, needs to have
it?s opposite to feel what he is, to feel what he can be, to know
he can?t do anything without the female principle. When he comes
back, he takes along his experiences, her reflections of her being,
and his coming back enriches the source with the seed of his being
of experiences.
All is in the dance of nature. And although this dance can be
understood, felt, experienced. If it is logical to feel the pain
of leaving and to be left alone, if you all are able to transcend
it and feel the connection with all there is, know that going
back to enjoy is part of the happiness, part of the expression
of being, the pain will be less.
Because you are both of the principles of going and staying, the
pain you feel in your relationships can be healed. With healing
the female inside all of you, the men and the women are able to
enjoy both parts in their life, and in their sacred relationship.
Then we are talking about companions playing with the energy of
being male and female inside each other in a dance of creation.
Next time it is worthwhile to talk about the ins and outs of the
sacred relationship between a man and a woman. Lot?s isn?t understood
in your world about the ties that binds the male and female inside
to a sacred marriage, and the ties that bind a man and a woman
in a sacred marriage. Before you are able to experience a marriage
like this one, the hurts of being woman, the hurts of being misunderstood,
mistreated, unvalued, are needed to be healed throughout the world.
So no woman will have emotional and physical hurts anymore for
just being born in a female body. And it also ends with women
that stop fighting each other for the love of a man, when they
have all the love they need inside themselves. Just share it with
each other.
Time to leave for this moment. Keep your love going. Heal yourself
and your neighbor.
Heal your female part, all of you, don?t matter if you are in
a male body. And start to respect each other as you are.
With love,
Ashtar
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